Friday, August 29, 2008

White Powder


Thanks to the generosity of a few of our friends who recently moved, Aaron and I became the proud owners of six full bags of powdered sugar. The only thing I know what to use powdered sugar for is to make icing and I don't even like icing that much. Does anybody have a good recipe that uses a lot of powdered sugar? I've been in a candy making mood. Any ideas?

Time to Buy a Cow


I've been working really hard to get the recommended amount of protein. One of my tactics has been to drink a glass or two of milk at every meal. One cup of milk is 8 grams of protein so you can see it adds up quickly. It's been working well but we keep running out of milk. We ran out again last night and I realized we had just finished off our fifth gallon of the week. So we're going through more than a gallon a day. I think it's time to buy a cow.

Obama


Last night Aaron and I watched Barack Obama's acceptance speech "The American Promise." It was powerful and I hope you got a chance to watch it. I know some of you have no interest in reading or listening to a democrat's speech, but I thought you might tolerate reading three or four more lines of this blog. Some of his statements might surprise you, some of them surprised me. I particularly enjoyed the section in the speech where Obama "spelled out exactly what change would look like if [he] was President." Here are a few selections:

I will cut taxes - cut taxes - for 95% of all working families. Because in an economy like this, the last thing we should do is raise taxes on the middle-class.

And for the sake of our economy, our security, and the future of our planet, I will set a clear goal as President: in ten years, we will finally end our dependence on oil from the Middle East.

(When Obama said this Aaron and my jaws dropped. That is one crazy promise! I'm elated that Obama is going to be seriously committed to energy independence and alternative fuels. That'll rock the boat. I'm looking forward to hearing McCain's response.)



I will stop giving tax breaks to corporations that ship jobs overseas, and I will start giving them to companies that create good jobs right here in America.

I will eliminate capital gains taxes for the small businesses and the start-ups that will create the high-wage, high-tech jobs of tomorrow.

As President, I will tap our natural gas reserves, invest in clean coal technology, and find ways to safely harness nuclear power.

I'll help our auto companies re-tool, so that the fuel-efficient cars of the future are built right here in America. I'll make it easier for the American people to afford these new cars.

I'll invest 150 billion dollars over the next decade in affordable, renewable sources of energy - wind power and solar power and the next generation of biofuels; an investment that will lead to new industries and five million new jobs that pay well and can't ever be outsourced.

I'll invest in early childhood education. I'll recruit an army of new teachers, and pay them higher salaries and give them more support. And in exchange, I'll ask for higher standards and more accountability.

And we will keep our promise to every young American - if you commit to serving your community or your country, we will make sure you can afford a college education.

Now is the time to finally keep the promise of affordable, accessible health care for every single American. If you have health care, my plan will lower your premiums. If you don't, you'll be able to get the same kind of coverage that members of Congress give themselves. And as someone who watched my mother argue with insurance companies while she lay in bed dying of cancer, I will make certain those companies stop discriminating against those who are sick and need care the most.

Now is the time to change our bankruptcy laws, so that your pensions are protected ahead of CEO bonuses; and the time to protect Social Security for future generations.

And now is the time to keep the promise of equal pay for an equal day's work, because I want my daughters to have exactly the same opportunities as your sons.

Now, many of these plans will cost money, which is why I've laid out how I'll pay for every dime - by closing corporate loopholes and tax havens that don't help America grow. But I will also go through the federal budget, line by line, eliminating programs that no longer work and making the ones we do need work better and cost less - because we cannot meet twenty-first century challenges with a twentieth century bureaucracy.

Yes, we must provide more ladders to success for young men who fall into lives of crime and despair. But we must also admit that programs alone can't replace parents; that government can't turn off the television and make a child do her homework; that fathers must take more responsibility for providing the love and guidance their children need.

Individual responsibility and mutual responsibility - that's the essence of America's promise.

As Commander-in-Chief, I will never hesitate to defend this nation, but I will only send our troops into harm's way with a clear mission and a sacred commitment to give them the equipment they need in battle and the care and benefits they deserve when they come home.

I will end this war in Iraq responsibly, and finish the fight against al Qaeda and the Taliban in Afghanistan. I will rebuild our military to meet future conflicts. But I will also renew the tough, direct diplomacy that can prevent Iran from obtaining nuclear weapons and curb Russian aggression. I will build new partnerships to defeat the threats of the 21st century: terrorism and nuclear proliferation; poverty and genocide; climate change and disease. And I will restore our moral standing, so that America is once again that last, best hope for all who are called to the cause of freedom, who long for lives of peace, and who yearn for a better future.

If you made it through all of that you may be interested in reading the whole speech for yourself which you can do here.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Share The Road


Aaron rode his bike to work today for the first time. I'm really excited that he's trying it out and hope it goes well for him. His office is about 8 miles away. One of the best things about where we live is The Mount Vernon Bike Trail is only about 3 blocks from our apartment. It's 18 miles of smooth paved road and runs right along the river which makes for some gorgeous views of the city. Dozens of other bike trails shoot off from it so we have almost unlimited amounts of riding just moments away. I love it! Aaron will be using it to ride into the city. I hope he can be safe after he gets off the trail and onto the mean DC streets.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

The Great Debate


Last night was the Democratic National Convention. Aaron and I naively thought we would turn it on and enjoy the show. Instead the simple sight of a few red and blue balloons launched us into a 3 hour "conversation" on the merits of our opposing candidates and all their various policies.
Somewhere at the end of the three hours while we got ready for bed I asked Aaron if I died in child birth and it was my dying wish that he vote for Obama if he would do it. He said No. This morning I asked him what he wanted for his birthday. He said he wanted me to vote for McCain and was upset when I told him no. So according to Aaron a birthday wish trumps a dying wish.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Leonard Nimoy's Ballad of Bilbo Baggins

What did Leonard Nimoy do with all his time after Star Trek? Sang wonderful ballads about hobbits of course! I love this video. I think it shows just how much damage Peter Jackson has done to Tolkien's work. He has no sense of campiness.

Dr. Ronald Chevalier - The Art of Relaxating

I've been pretty stressed out lately with work being crazy and getting set up in our new place. So I was very appreciative when Aaron located this little video for me on the Art of Relaxating by Dr. Ronald Chevalier (Jermaine Clement of Flight of the Conchords working with Jeremiah Hess)So effective! "All the little creatures answer to you." Now what's more soothing than total world domination? There's going to be a feature length movie of Dr. Chevalier soon. You can see more and listen to an excerpt of his book Cyborg Harpies at his "web sanctum" www.ronaldchevalier.com

Friday, August 22, 2008

A Tree Falls in the Forest....


So you know that old question, "If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it, does it still make a sound?" I've been pondering a similar question. If I get up in the morning and NO ONE sees me, not a single person allll day, does it matter what I look like?

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Podington Bear


Working or painting I often find myself wanting to listen to something that's upbeat but not too distracting. So I've fallen for the music of Podington Bear. It's happy and wordless and keeps me going at a good pace. And Podington is so cute. You can have some major helpings for free HERE.

Camera Trap Codger


Lately, I've been enjoying the blog Camera Trap Codger. Written by a retired Smithsonian Biologist that sets up camera traps in the California wilderness. The pictures are amazing and accompanied with a lot of interesting animal information. There are deer, coyotes, mountain beaver, bears, bats, squirrels, chipmunks, raccoons and more. Some of the animals clearly feel the way about being photographed that I do, like this bear. He investigates the camera, decides he doesn't like it and for the next couple of weeks destroys every one he comes across.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Bradley


So Aaron and I are going to take a Bradley class and it starts this weekend. To get ready for the class I bought the book Natural Childbirth The Bradley Way. It is by far one of the scariest books I have ever read. I attribute this to the fact that I haven't read any other book on child birth so some of the information was more than a little disturbing.

Thankfully, this specific book includes the original photos used in the 1984 edition for, I assume, comic relief. The women and the men, but particularly the men, have some awesome 80s style going on. I tried to convince Aaron that it's part of the Bradley method and if we want to have a successful birth he needs to find himself some super short running shorts, grow a mustache, curl his chest hair, and wear a gold chain necklace and sweat bands to our class. For the extra mile he could get a perm. We'll see how supportive he's really willing to be.

Reading the book, I have to keep reminding myself that it isn't the book that upsets me (I think the material itself is reasonable and very helpful) it is the actual process of birth that I've got objections to. I do not understand why in His infinite and loving wisdom God didn't let us be marsupials. Marsupials give birth when the fetus is still miniscule. The baby then minds its own business, feeding itself in a convenient little pouch, until its ready to hop out and go its own way. What a great idea! Now that's a life process I can get behind.

Unfortunately personal opinion seems to count for very little in this situation so I can expect a normal mammalian birth in a quickly dwindling space of time. I really am grateful for what I've learned from the Bradley method so far. It's big on educating you about the process and it has lots of exercises to help you train mentally and physically for child birth. I trained for my first 5k run when I was 12, where all I had to do was not stop running. You can't get more basic than that and I still trained for it, a lot. Why would I not train for the physically demanding and potentially life threatening condition of labor? Why isn't it common to train for labor? Doesn't that seem weird to anyone else? Was everyone else born knowing something I wasn't?

Monday, August 18, 2008

Skip


Don't you wish there were some days you could just skip past? Today was one of those days for me. I woke up this morning and found my body had remembered how much it loves throwing up. I thought we had moved beyond that. But I spent a considerable part of my day sipping ginger ale only to puke it back up. I still got some work done but felt very alone and sick and frustrated. Thanks to a variety of world events, the Russia-Georgia conflict, Musharraf resigning etc Aaron is at work past eleven with no end in sight (he he he). So I decided to indulge and I let myself watch the Newshour twice and the Antiques Road Show. And I sent in a little project that has this fairy. I think she turned out alright so I'm trying to remind myself the day wasn't a total loss.

EFY Water Song

Go Dan! Almost makes me wish I went to EFY.

Friday, August 15, 2008

INDEPENDENT LENS | Wordplay | PBS

This movie is at the top of my Netflix queue and I'm really looking forward to watching it. I'm sure it's going to hurt my already pained vocabulary ego.

Gratuitous Chicken Violence


Working from home has given me the option of watching day time television. The Olympics have been on constantly which is incredibly entertaining and dangerously distracting. During commercial breaks I strayed to a few other channels to check out what else was on and I've decided I haven't been missing much.

Except when it comes to the Spanish channel's telenovelas and we get THREE Spanish so at about one in the afternoon there are three telenovelas to enjoy.They are INCREDIBLE. The other day I flipped to the channel and there was a woman dressed in a very tight black cowboy outfit holding a chicken and a gun by a river. She said (in Spanish) "Hey, do you remember me?!?" "Do you remember me?!?" I was a little taken aback but she wasn't addressing me but a guy pinned down on the bank of the river by two other guys with knives. Then she took the chicken she was holding and threw it in the river. The chicken flapped for a few seconds struggling against the water, then sunk to its watery grave. The camera focused on the little bubbles coming up to the surface. The man looked up from the drowned chicken, squinted and asked Barbarita?? And she said YES! But I haven't been called Barbarita for a long time... Now that is television.

Lion's Share

Aaron asked me out last night and told me he had a surprise for me. He let me ask a few questions and all I could get out of him was that it some how involved animals and was like a zoo but not at the zoo and it wasn't bingo or at a bingo hall but the food would be similar.


We ended up at the Presidential Box of the Kennedy Center watching the musical the Lion King. I'm not really a big fan of musicals but the show was AMAZING!! The costume and puppets were brilliant and the dancing was impressive. And our seats were better than anything I could have imagined. I can tell I don't have much experience with theater since I kept switching from feeling fashionable and elegant and part of a Russian novel or nervous that I was going to be shot in the back of the head like Lincoln. Oh yeah, and very in love with Aaron who pulled the whole thing off in grand style.



I found a picture of some of the awesome costume puppets. Those giraffes are people. Pretty amazing isn't it? And by the way, the food we ate was much better than what you'd get at a Bingo hall. We passed on the champagne, but Aaron raided the presidential candy bar for Jelly Bellys and M&Ms (the M&Ms are red, white and blue and actually come in a box with the Presidential seal).

Dangers of Unpacking


We've got most of the unpacking done, but I'm still getting everything organized. The really challenging part of unpacking for me is to resist the urge to read every book I pull out of a box. Unpacking means you get to handle every possession for at least a second and all those well intentioned but unfulfilled plans to brush up on my latin or Calculus or reread the Origin of the Species are right in front of me again. And there are some books that are just too wonderful to not open up again like the 1965 paperback of the Hobbit. It's the first edition released in the US and has some wonderfully bizarre cover art featuring emus. So I've found myself rereading Man's Search for Meaning, Ecce Romani, The Hobbit, The Communist Manifesto, The Norton Critical Collection of Darwin, Thoreau's Walden, The Jungle Book and Harold Bloom's Best Poems of the English Language ALL at the same time. I think I'm going crazy. I've started dreaming of rioting socialist Hobbits in Rome.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Orwell


Yesterday I found out that The Orwell Trust is publishing George Orwell's diary entries seventy years to the day that he originally wrote them on a blog!! They started August 9th. So far I've learned that Orwell's dog was named Marx which I think is hilarious and that he started his whole diary when he found a large snake in the garden. Just when I think I can't like Orwell any better than I already do, this comes along. I think the diaries last for six years and covers the approach and then the activity of WWII along with Orwell's daily life and observations. Fascinating stuff.

Happy 4th!

Aaron and I were married 4 years ago today. It's cause for celebration and reflection. I was thinking earlier about what I was doing four years ago (working like crazy to finish up my classes) compared to what I'm doing now (working like crazy to finish up work stuff and searching the DC area for a Bradley class that didn't fill up 3 months ago). While it may seem like not too much has changed I know I'm a lot happier having Aaron in my life.

Being married has taught us a lot. I can say it's taught me to be a lot nicer and more forgiving and more in love than I ever expected I could be. And Aaron has done a really wonderful job being married to someone that was in his words "more passionate" than he first realized. I am still surprised by how much he loves me.

Recently Aaron agreed to answer a few questions for the baby shower and I really enjoyed getting some insight on his thoughts. I thought you might as well. #3 is by far my favorite answer. I still laugh about Aaron's fear of my "crazy anger" and um...my bad hair? (By the way some of Aaron's answers were wrong, like what he's going to do in the middle of the night and what the baby's political views will be and probably the vegetarian thing too. He he he)

1. The first thing you said when Katy told you she was pregnant:

That's wonderful! Are you ok? (cause I was worried she'd be upset)

2. What sex are you hoping for or do you think it will be?

I'm guessing it's a girl. Hoping for a boy so there's at least one. Odds are it'll be a girl.


3. Aaron says he hopes the baby has Katy's ______________________________________________
a.) eyes definitely
b.) smile yes
c.) nose yes
d.) hair I think so. Might be easier to deal with my hair. Less crazy.
e.) temperment Creative and sense of humor and passion for life yes. Crazy angry no.
f.) smarts yes

4. Aaron says he hopes the baby has his._________________________________________________________
a.) eyes
b.) smile
c.) nose
d.) hair
e.) sense of humor sure. I need someone on my side. Might be nice to have my family's temperment: obedient and basically cheerful.
f.) smarts

5.) Aaron says now that the baby is near he worries most about ___________
a. money. I can handle the rest.
a.) money
b.) lack of sleep
c.) its health
d.) changing diapers

6. What do you think your reaction will be when the baby starts crying at 2am in the morning?_____________________________________________________.

Either I won't hear it and will sleep through it or will

7. What's your favorite boy's name?

Right now Reuben Clifford or Asher

8. What's your favorite girls name?

Petra or Elinor

9. What is a bedtime story that you look forward to reading or telling to your baby?

Call It Courage.

10. What is one job you could picture your baby having one day?

Scientist, lawyer, artist,

11. What song will you sing to your baby to go to sleep?
All through the night
Horsey, Horsey

12. What will be your secret weapon for calming or entertaining your baby?

My baby skills. Good at rocking them to sleep, singing, etc. Throwing them in the air works well too.

13.What's one thing you did with your younger siblings that you wouldn't do with your baby?


14. Will your baby be a vegetarian and why or why not?

No. Too hard, can be exasperating in social situations. Katy handles it pretty gracefully though.


15. What do you think your baby's political views could be?

Ultra-conservative. My arguments are very persuasive. Katy is just stubborn.


16. What's one baby product that you think is absolutely essential during the baby's first year of life?

Danish hanging baby cradle. that'd be cool, but really diapers and bottles.


17. If your baby had a fairy godmother, what wish would you want her to give to the baby?

Faith, Health, Gratitude, and Prosperity.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

MemSahib


First you MUST MUST MUST watch THIS video.

I've embedded it like three times but my youtube account is struggling. So once you've watched this video you will understand why I can NOT wait for tomorrow night. Aaron and I are going to MemSahib!

MemSahib is a jem of an indian restaurant located in a small strip mall just outside DC. The food is delicious and the atmosphere cozy. You sit on the floor on a bed of pillows and share a six course meal you eat with your hands and lots and lots of nan.

But best of all they play the MOST amazing bollywood music videos. Music videos like the one I linked to and you should have just watched. (You are really missing out if you don't watch it) And as a bonus, on weekends they open up the dance floor so you can try out the moves yourself with a professional belly dancer. Ward talent show here we come!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Aaron Skills

Aaron is blessed with many skills. One of his particularly eccentric talents is his optimistic belief that any task can be accomplished in under 15 minutes. Do all the grocery shopping? Clean the entire house? Get back from work? When asked he will always give you an estimate under 15 minutes. This has caused a few conflicts in our marriage, especially when a time estimate proves to be grossly incorrect. When that takes place Aaron usually patiently explains to me the extenuating circumstances that made the task take longer than the appropriate 15 minutes. Even more infuriating is when he can, through some mix of magic and will power, pull off the impossible to prove me wrong.

Last night was a great example. Aaron wanted to go to Ikea to pick up a new rug for our apartment. It was 8:40 and Ikea closes at 9:30. I asked how far away Ikea was. Aaron told me it was 10-15 minutes. I was more than doubtful that we could get to Ikea, make a decent decision on a rug and make it out of the store in time. But I gave Aaron a chance. We walked into Ikea just as the intercom announced that we had ten minutes to make our final selection and bring it to the check out counter. Ten minutes later we walked out of Ikea with a rug, a lamp and a cutting board all for 30 dollars. Aaron once again made the impossible possible and I was wrong again but impressed.

Monday, August 4, 2008

Ain't Nothin' Like the Real Thing


This weekend my family was kind enough to come up and visit Aaron and me in our new Alexandria location. Showing them around was fairly comical since I had moved up Wednesday afternoon and they came Friday afternoon. So they had a lot of questions that I couldn't honestly answer. Questions like, what's the closest grocery store to you? Where can you go to work out? What's around the corner? How do we get to...? My response to the last one was usually Ask Aaron or Well, mapquest says...

Still it was a lot of fun to see Dad, Mom, Abby and Robby. Friday night Abby and Mom let Aaron and me tag along to the B&N Breaking Dawn midnight release party. I expected more costumes but it was still a good time. Once Abby got the book in her hands we couldn't get much more than monosyllable responses out of her so I guess it's pretty good.

On Saturday we hung out at the Smithsonian and Aaron gave us a tour of the West Wing of the White House. Then they were headed back South but they left Aaron and me with a wealth of South Carolina ripened peaches and blueberries. I've eaten more than a dozen peaches each day and every time I bite into one I think, Wow, I know these are good but I can't believe they're THIS good. Sadly, they're so delicious that attempting to eat a store bought peach afterwards brings nothing but disappointment and resentment.