I found some croc shoes half off and decided I'd get Reuben a pair so he wouldn't destroy his decent shoes at the beach. I thought he'd probably like the shoes better if I involved him in the selection. So I held up a respectably colored dark navy pair and brown green pair and asked Reuben do you want blue or green? He surveyed his choices then looked over my head (figuratively and literally) at the rack and said RED! RED!
I thought about doing a parental over ride but in all fairness I did ask. And I didn't want his first lesson in self determination to be met with a no. But maybe I'm obsessing a little too much on the parenting?
Either way, my child now looks like Ronald McDonald. But a very happy Ronald McDonald. He's walked up to me several times to show off his new apparel. As soon as he gets my attention he points down to his feet and says RED! RED! Red shoooes!



















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